Roller coaster

Do you ever have a day or two where so many different things happen, and they're so intensely emotional - but all different emotions - that you hardly know whether you're coming or going? Let me fill you in on the ups and downs of my personal little emotional roller coaster this week.

Friday - UP
I chatted with my counsellor and agreed that it was time to get back into some issues that had been put on hold for me whilst I was dealing with some stuff at work. This included some journal entries that I'd sent but we hadn't talked about yet. I was keen to dive into it all again and looked forward to my session on Tuesday.

Sunday - UP
I returned to church after a three month absence (long story but I wasn't in a good place and needed a break). It was great to be back.

Monday - DOWN
I have been reading a book called The Body Remembers by Babette Rothschild. Although written for therapists, and thus highly technical, it's been very helpful. On Monday I started reading the chapter on flashbacks... and almost instantly had a massive anxiety attack as I remembered some flashbacks I had had more than a year ago. It was like a flashback of a flashback, which I didn't even know was possible. It is, and it freaked me out.

Tuesday - DOWN

My counselling session was first thing in the morning and I talked about my reaction the day before. In order to explain why a 'flashback of a flashback' is indeed possible my counsellor started to tell me a story about someone becoming anxious about being anxious. The more she said the word 'anxious' the more MY anxiety level increased, until I had to ask her to stop because I thought I was going to pass out. Yeah, it was intense. After a break and some breathing exercises I felt a bit calmer and we agreed to put this aside for the moment and talk about something more innocuous and less stressful. That helped but I remained shaken by the experience for the whole day.

Tuesday - UP
After my session in the morning I met with my prayer triplet. It was both comforting and refreshing.

Tuesday - UP
I went for a two hour walk in an effort to reduce my adrenaline levels which were still high after my episode of anxiety in the morning. It was good and helped to stop some of my anxiety symptoms.

Tuesday night - DOWN

I received the news that my friend's wife had died that morning, after being diagnosed with breast cancer ten months ago. She was 40; and leaves behind her husband and two young boys.

Tuesday night - UP

After a day of suffering the effects of the morning's anxiety and feeling increasingly afraid of going back to counselling next week and having the same thing happen, I finally reached the point where I decided enough is enough. I reached for my journal and wrote the following:



















After writing that I felt a lot better and far more in control. I think something vital has just clicked in my brain...

Wednesday - UP
Givinya's baby was born!

So it's been an interesting few days. Up and down and round in circles.... I'm feeling a little tired now, to be honest! Here's hoping the rest of the week is boring and dull...
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5 comments:

Long dark hair, blue eyes said...

sometimes there is really nothing better than a dull average unexciting week. I dream of weeks like that.

Swift Jan said...

You know what's really good though.. that you are able to pin point how you are actually feeling about stuff. That's great!

I'm sorry its been such a crazy week for you.

I am also sorry to hear of your friend's passing. She was so young :(

Take care, I hope next week is relitively uneventful for you ((hugs))

Femina said...

I think you're spot on there, Swift Jan. Having an awareness of what's going on inside me is half the battle; and is far more productive than, "I don't feel right and I don't know why and therefore I can't do anything about it." That's the kind of thing that (for me) leads to bouts of depression or episodes of road rage... or bursting into tears at the fruit market because they've run out of bananas...

Crazy Sister said...

Yikes! What a lot to get through!

I'm often floored when somebody passes away and a baby is born in the same week. Not in a stupid reincarnation sort of way, just... you know.

Femina said...

Yeah, I agree. Not in a reincarnation way but in a "wow, this is like Ecclesiastes coming to life" kind of way.

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